Not to be taken Seriously
Did you just meet a guy that you have a real connection with, only to learn he already has a girlfriend? The smart girl would walk away from this situation right away, but not all women would do the same thing. Some women would do anything to get that guy who’s already involved.
1. Step 1
See how he reacts around you and look for any signs that he’s attracted. It’s more than a little foolish to go after someone who doesn’t like you at all.
2. Step 2
Ask him in a casual way how serious he and his girlfriend are. He might start gushing about how much in love they are or confess that they’re having problems.
3. Step 3
Let him know that you lead a busy and active social life and that it includes dates. The next time he starts talking about his relationship, tell him that reminds you of the last date you had.
4. Step 4
Change the topic when he mentions his girlfriend. This will act as a subtle reminder that you’re not necessarily interested in hearing about his love life.
5. Step 5
Incorporate things into the conversation that you might not talk about like your common interests and favorite movies. He’ll start to realize that the two of you share quite a lot.
6. Step 6
Drop subtle hints into the conversation about how you’re interested in someone who’s already taken or that you can’t have the person you want.
7. Step 7
Be honest and tell him the truth. Let him know that you’re interested, but you would never be with someone already in a relationship. Tell him that you’ll wait for him to make the next move, but you won’t wait forever.